The 10 Best Ways To End A Relationship


Have you ever been in a relationship where you just feel like it won't be going anywhere and you really don't have feelings for the other the way you use to? 

Are you scared to end it because of the way you think they will react?  Well grow some courage cause you can't live like this forever. 

It's your life and it's time to take it by the horns and live it the way you want to.

Here are some ways to break up the relationship and make your life a little easier.

  1. Never call the person on the phone unless you have a long distance relationship and by long distance I don't mean like 2 hours away or less because you can drag your ass to see them to break up with them face to face.  Anyone that breaks up over the phone is completely chicken sh*t!

  2. Lots of people prefer to take their soon to be ex mate out for coffee or a public place so just in case they totally freak out at least there will be people to protect them.  This is way is kind of iffy because I know I wouldn't be pleased if someone broke up with me in front of everyone.  It's not fun to be a crying mess in public.

  3. Another way to end the relationship is to tell them to meet you somewhere.  Make sure they have a ride though because it's never fun looking a frightful mess with your mascara running down your face on public transportation.  A park perhaps or at their house or yours to have some privacy.

  4. Never say .. "It's not you it's me."  That is the worst thing to say.  Obviously it's not or you wouldn't be breaking up with them.

  5. Tell the truth.  If the person is too controlling or talks to much then tell them they do so.  That way they can perhaps try and change that about them selves.  If they are never told what they are doing wrong then how will they know to change it?

  6. Women needs closure.  If your a guy and just think after a long term relationship that you can just end it and never see them again you have another thing coming.  Women like to talk about what went wrong.  Just bare it for their sake as it helps them to get over the hurt faster.

  7. Don't just stop calling them or contacting them.  This is a really bad way to do it.  Confront the situation and act like the bigger person.  What's the worse thing that could happen?  Unless they are completely crazy and that's why you are breaking up with them.  In cases like these answer the phone.. tell them how you feel and if they over react and go nuts then just change your number.  If it gets worse and they stalk you then please get the authorities involved

  8. Get straight to the point.  There is no sense in talking about past memories on how everything use to be so great because it brings up old feelings and things could get messy.  Just tell them what went wrong and why you are doing what you are doing.  Don't be alarmed when the dumpie starts to cry or act all nuts.  People can change completely when they are being dumped and act a fool. 

  9. Please DO NOT break up in an email.  Sure it is easier and you can write down all the things that you want to say outloud but you too scared to but it is unfare and you will look like a scum bag.   Perhaps write down the things you want to say first and you can work them out before actually approaching the person face to face.

  10. Try using the "I need to talk to you as a friend as we are friends too.. I don't know how to say this but.. "  If you tell them that you need a friend to talk to about this then perhaps they will be more open minded. 

Everyone knows that breaking up with someone can sometimes be horrifying and ugly but it's all about the way you handle.  Take some time to consider the other persons feelings but put yourself first and don't go back to your mate if they start crying and you don't want them to be hurt because trust me.. if you have wanted to break up with them now.. then in a couple of months it probably won't be any better.

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  2. I have ended all of my previous relationships outside her house in my car. It's the best way because the girl starts crying as you explain to them "oh we have both changed, things aren't what they used to be blah blah" and then they get angry (natural progression of feelings) and what do people do when they get angry in a car? They get out and slam the door in your face! This is PERFECT! Not only did she get out without a fight, but she is safe at home where she can call up her best friend and trash you all night. Of course you drive off right away as you don't want her to realize it's "actually over". While your driving you might as well head over to your best friends house and celebrate with a guys night out! Woop!

  3. Ian.. You are priceles.. What a good way to end a relationship ... if your chicken shit.. Be a man and put up with the crying.. :)

  4. Ian: That's totally the way I'd do it too! Good form sir!