How To Choose A Career

Broke and Need a Job Fast?

Are you just out of high school and have no cash to go out anywhere? Or are you getting a little older and you would like a career instead of a plain old job?  Are you tired of always resorting to begging off your friends like a dog? Why is it that they always have the moola? Well fret no longer my friend, in this guide we'll go over some simple steps to land that dream job.  It all begins with you.

1. Make a list of careers you would be interested in. Don't be afraid to dream big here. It's important to think about what your ultimate goal is rather than dreaming of working at McDonalds. Each job you reach for should have something to do with landing your dream career.


2. Go to a career center or research online about how to obtain the career of your dreams.  Things always seem difficult, but once you set your mind to something it will get easier and the pay off will be worth it.  Take some online tests and find out what you're good at; This will get you thinking about what you enjoy spending your time doing.


3. Email a person that has the job that you would love.  Ask them how they got there and what steps they would advise you to take to obtain the career of your dreams.


4. Go to a Temp Agency.  You may have to take a test or two about the nature of the job you are applying for, but if you know what you are doing then it will be second nature to you.  They interview you after the test (that is if you even have to take one) and they will find possible jobs for you.  You then go to the business and have an interview with them. If they like you, and of course they will, BINGO... You now aren't jobless anymore:)


5. Create an account with www.monster.com, www.workopolis.com or other websites that show postings of jobs that are around your area.  Even if no one contacts you, you can look at the possible jobs and see if they are something that you would even want to do.


6. Ask around... Your friends might know someone that is hiring.  Bring your resume around with you.  There is no harm in being prepared for something that you desire.  Keep it in your car or in your backpack.


7. Go door to door at businesses that you think would be a good fit for you.  If you are interested in getting a job at a dentist office then go downtown and spam out your resume to the dental office's.  They might even need people if they don't post up a job in your local paper. Most jobs aren't even listed publicly, so the only way to know is to go to them.


8. Check the paper and internet every day.  Getting a job is a job in itself, and sadly you don't get paid for it.  If you want a job then you have to wake up and start the day with that in mind.  Eat, breathe and sleep it.  If you live each day with that vision it won't be long before you get a job.


9. Get a mini makeover.  There is nothing better than getting a new hair cut and a new suit to make your confidence go through the roof.  If you are confident, other people will detect that confidence and employers will hire you because they know that you're an independent, capable person.


10. Volunteer at places for a while.  This is a great way to see what you will like to do and what you won't in no time at all..  Plus it'll look great on your resume and will help you meet new people which could mean a new job opportunity.

Getting a job can be a real pain in the ass. It takes time, dedication and commitment. It's so easy to spend your time on "fun" things like going to the mall, beach or even playing an awesome video game. The problem is without a job, you won't have money and none of those things will be any fun... unless of course you like to beg like a dog to your friends, you know i don't. RUFF RUFF. Just remember to dress for success and if you prepare yourself with a great resume then getting a new job will be a cinch. Good luck!

Should You Wear Makeup To Bed?

Weren't Born With Natural Beauty?  Have No Fear!

Are you going out with a guy and you are too self conscious of him seeing you when you wake up in the morning without makeup on? 

It's bad enough that you have morning breath, but if you combine the two is he going to give an excuse why he has to leave as soon as he wakes up?

Never fear.. I have a plan for you. 

Wear a paper bag over your face according to Steven M. from work. 

That's funny but not my suggestion.

I suggest that if he doesn't appreciate you without makeup on then he's a loser anyway you should have found that out before you went to bed with him.

Take it slow if you really feel self conscious about showing what your face really looks like.. Start with not wearing face makeup but keeping mascara on and slowly weening him off. 

I personally think that if they don't like you then they can suck it.. But if you really like this guy then take your chances. 

Most guys really don't like makeup anyways so who knows.  He could be a woodsy type of guy and not even care. 

In order for you to find Mr. Right and not just Mr. Right Now, you have to be completely yourself.

It is also really bad for your skin to sleep with your make up on.  Make sure you use a elfgentle cleanser and don't rub your face with the towel.. Make sure you blot so you don't cause wrinkles. 

Your face needs to breathe at night time so don't suffocate it or one day he will give an excuse to leave early in the morning ;)

Do you Trust your Mate?

Are you with someone that you don't trust?

Trust is the most important part of a relationship.

If you don't have trust you don't have sh*t all.

How can you have an intimate relationship or any relationship for that matter with someone who you think is going behind your back? 

You can't.

There have been many times in my life when I trusted my boyfriend when I shouldn't have and I got totally screwed.. Well actually he got totally screwed cause he had sex with my best friend.

Needless to say she isn't my best friend anymore.

It's not just about trusting your boyfriend or girlfriend but friends as well.  I have had many friends and most of the time they have turned out to be complete weirdos or have done something to me that only a worst enemy would think of doing.

How do you trust someone if you have been hurt in the past?  The answer to this question is time and finding yourself and gaining self respect back if you lost it.. I lost mine so don't be embarrassed about it.

Your life is about you and only you.  Focus on what makes you happy and you will find someone that you can truly trust.

How do you find someone that you can trust?  That I do not have the answer for.  However try and start to trust someone with little things.  If they can't be trusted with little things then you know you can't trust them at all.  

You can't change someone either so if you think you can change your mate if they have cheated you couldn't be more wrong.  A cheater will always be a scum bag unless they want to change.

Usually you get a feeling for a person after you have met them for 5 seconds.  Sometimes your wrong and you judge the person too quickly, but your gut instinct is usually always right.

Do you get a strange vibe from your other half and think that something is going on?  If so then it probably is..  

 If you have a hunch then go and do some detective work before you go to them and make an accusation because usually their reaction will be on the defensive side and they will usually turn the situation around on you. 

They will say "Why were you going through my stuff anyways" or "Your so paranoid... You need to get a life."  All these things I was told and it turned out to be that he was the dirty rat.

People think that you should trust people fully until they prove you wrong.. But I on the other hand think quite the opposite.  Until they prove to you that they can be trusted then don't trust them with anything.  It might be a bitter way to start a relationship but at least you won't get let down when they do something terrible to you. 

Most people in the world are around to screw you over.  It's not a nice way to look at everything but from my experience that couldn't be more of the truth. 

If you don't want top secret info about yourself to get out to others then you probably shouldn't tell even your bes about it.  Protect and take care of yourself and the other stuff will work itself out.

Hope I have helped you. 

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