I have had lots of requests to do a daily makeup routine so here it is.
Hope you like it!
Abandon The Date If Their Late
Tick Tock Tick Tock
I am sure all of you at some point have been waiting in your fancy clothes on your first date and then you look at the clock and your date is so late..
WTF right?
Well let me inform you that you are not alone and it's time to call them and cancel and not make another date. If they don't answer then so be it and ditch the looser.
This is a very bad sign that the person is a dud right from the beginning.
Sure it is completely different if they are having trouble finding your house but they have called once or twice.. But the no phone call and you are waiting patiently with your hair done and you are trying not to get animal fur all over your brand new black dress.
I had a first date once and I called them after they were 30 minutes late and he was sleeping! For some reason I decided that I would go out with him anyways..
I SHOULD NOT HAVE RECONCIDERED MY DECISION AS HE WAS SUCH A LOOOOOOOOSER!
It should be a huge red sign from up above that they DO NOT deserve you.
Didn't you spend all day getting ready and making sure that your makeup, hair and everything was just perfect. Did you call all your friends because you were so excited?
They on the other hand just didn't care as much as you and it won't get better.. TRUST ME!
This is a sign that they are good for nothing. This is the type of person that after you have gone out with them for a couple of months get disgusting and lazy and always "forget" to call you.
You are a strong and sexy person and you will not take this anymore. You deserve better and if you stand up for yourself than you will always get the best.
You probably want a person that is so into you. You want someone that loves you for you and tries to make you laugh and cheer you up when things get bad..
This person on the other hand is late and cannot even get to you on time when a first date is the best way to make a first impression.
Ditch the Dummy and you will thank me.. :)
How To Make Yourself Stand Out
Do you tend to blend in with the background and your sick of it?
These are some easy steps you can take to get yourself noticed
- Pick out clothes that not everyone would wear. Use bright colors and big, bold accessories. Don't over do it though or you'll be noticed and it won't be for the good. Try to bring back fads.. The acid jeans are back now.. Who would have guessed? Someone wore those and it was different so now everyone is wearing them.. See, different attracts attention.
- Be confident. Even if you fake it. (which you shouldn't cause your fabulous) Everyone admires confidence. Confidence looks go0d on everyone unless you are conceited.. That is not a good look for anyone.
- Be who you are. Be happy with who you are and everything that you stand for. Be the best you possible.
- Do something dramatic like dye your hair an awesome color or get a hair cut that is fashionable and might possibly start a new great trend.
- Smile! Not a lot of people smile anymore or say hi so make sure your the one that tries to brighten someones day. A smile is really all you need.
- Eye Contact - Keep eye contact for more than just a couple of seconds. If a guy or girl is checking you out, some good eye contact will make them sizzle.
- Do something crazy.. If it's a party and everyone is playing "Truth or Dare" then participate and take on a dare and do it to your fullest. If it's a theme day at work.. Go crazy with a costume. Just make sure you always stand out and go overboard. :)
- Don't be afraid to laugh out loud. A laugh is contagious and if someone hears you laugh perhaps it just might make their day too. Always try and be witty and friendly.
- Do something nice for someone. Buy them flowers for no reason or help someone across the street. This world is sometimes out to get you and it's refreshing when someone goes out of their way to help another.
- Try something different. Stars sometimes do crazy things to get the public to notice them. Example: Try painting one of your nails a different color.
I hope these Tips have helped you. Let me know if they work! lesliestar@lesliestar.ca 
Online Dating - Pro's and Con's
Should I or Shouldn't I?
There is a huge booming industry of online dating sites.. Everyone seems to be looking for their one true love. The question is .. Will you ever find true love through online dating?
I have personally met a lot of really cool friends online and I think that it is totally possible to find true love anywhere and it doesn't stop at Online dating.
There are sites like www.plentyoffish.com, www.matchmaker.com, www.lavalife.com and www.eharmony.com. All these sites are helpful but how will you ever really know if the person really is who they say they are? I guess that's true face to face too, however most of the time you can tell whether or not they are shady in real life.
Here are some PROS and CONS on Online Dating
PROS
- You meet a lot of really cool people. If you don't like them after a bit you can always delete them or hit ignore. It is much harder in person to do something like that.
- You can be yourself behind the computer. There is no face to face nervousness and you can just relax and talk and even make yourself sound smarter than you actually are. :)
- You could potentially meet the love of your life online. There are millions of people to hook up with and chat and you can pick and chose who you like talking to and the best part is you can decide when and if you want to kick this person to the curb or keep them close.
- If you have trouble meeting people than this is a great way to do it. No pressure and you can decide who you want to talk to.
- There isn't really a fear of rejection. If the person that you are digging doesn't respond.. It's no big deal. Move on to the next potential love..
- You can look up what the other person likes/dislikes, what they like to do for fun, and their age. People who are older and don't get out much can easily look for their people in their age group and they don't even have to talk to them yet.
CONS
- It's not a very good way to socialize. Get out in the real world and try and pick someone up. It's not healthy to be in your house all day typing on the computer till 6pm and you still haven't brushed your hair and your in your pajamas. That will not get you a mate in real life.
- Not everyone is who they say they are. You have to be really careful when talking to people you don't know. They could arrange to meet and then kill you.. You don't know if they are a good person. Plus.. they don't have the same friends as you, so you could probably never track them down if they ripped you off or something.
- Sometimes you get stalkers online. This is never a pretty situation. Just hit delete or ignore and never give out your personal information. If they continue to harass you by logging on with a different name over and over again contact the webmaster by email and let them in on the situation.
- There are a lot more men than women in the Internet dating world. Most men are there to have cyber sex to the few women that there are on there. Stay away from these pigs unless you like that sort of thing. In this case perhaps it could be a PRO. :)
- Some people sign up for online dating just to get online passwords and information to scam people. If it's too good to be true it probably is folks.
- If you think you are talking to a tall, dark and handsome guy you probably are totally wrong. The picture is probably of some model that they just ripped off the net. Never believe anything until you see it. Perhaps suggest a web chat?
- They might be married or in a relationship. That actually happened to me once. My boyfriend didn't call me for Christmas one year and I found out it was because he was too busy writing to chicks on Christmas to phone me. Be careful who you pick and try and do a google search on them if possible.
If you have anymore pros or cons or have had some bad experiences with online dating, please email me at lesliestar@lesliestar.ca