Showing posts with label Boyfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Boyfriend. Show all posts

How To Be Myself

Get Your Life Back

Don't let me fool you into thinking that I know what I'm talking about.

I am as new to this as you are.

I have decided to change my life.

I have been grasping for anything to give me inspiration.

I seemed to be bored of the same ol' life I had.  Most of the time I was so bored I slept.


I recently split from my boyfriend of 5 years.

It was the worst feeling I have ever felt.  I thought the world would never be the same.

But I am slowly learning how to find out who I am.

The steps I am taking are slow but I can defiantly share  what I am going through in hopes that it may help you.

I have started a diet.  It's called "The 17 Day Diet" by Dr. Mike Moreno.  So far I have read 155 pages in two days and my first day of diet and exercise was today.

I didn't cheat.

I actually got myself out of bed this morning and did the damn 17 minute work out DVD that I purchased with the book from www.the17daydiet.com.


What got me in the mood to get motivated was my weekend out at a local club.  Not one guy looked my way the whole night.  It was like I was having an outer body experience and I was looking at my fat self.

I simply got so tired of not fitting into my jeans, my ankles swelling, my face being chubby etc. etc..  that I have decided to live my life healthier.

I told myself to stop sitting around thinking that I have the worst life out of everybody on earth.   A good friend told me that it seriously could always be worse.

I have done a lot of soul searching lately and I have come to find out that I completely lost myself quite a few years ago.

It's time to get our lives back!

Who's with me?




Sitting around being sad all the time does not help anything.

It only makes you feel pathetic and unsociable which is the exact opposite of how you should be living your life.  Try to find things that inspire you.

What were you born to do?  All of us were born on this earth to make some kind of difference.

It's time to find out what your purpose is and you have a whole lotta time to figure it out.

Go to the nearest library and pick a book about hobbies that you would enjoy doing but never had the time to do before.

Take your dog out for a walk or listen to some music as that has really helped me as of lately.

Do something different with your hair or go and buy yourself something that you wouldn't normally wear.  Be who you truly are for a while just to see how it feels.

Let me tell you ... so far it feels wonderful.

Now go and do something that makes you feel happy and comment below about it!  Remember that no one will love you unless you love yourself so hurry up and start the process already.


Ready..set.. start your life!







Signs of a cheating Woman

Signs She's Cheating On You

Has your lady been dressing up lately?  Smelling pretty?

A woman wants to impress a new man and wants to look her best.

She will go for waxes that she has never had before, just to satisfy some new eyes.

Has she been working late lately?

How is your sex life?  Is it lacking?

It's sucking because she's doing it with someone else and she doesn't care about your needs anymore.

Both of you have probably been arguing because she's not happy  anymore.  Part of her feels guilt too so she is acting all weird.

Know that if she is.. it ISN'T your fault!  She has her own issues and in no way is it because of you.

If she is.. kick her ASS out because you are better than that.

Woman will also start developing new hobbies and doing new things all of a sudden.

Does she take a shower as soon as she gets home or at weird hours of the day?

She's trying to cover up her love stink.

Also a sign of a cheating spouse is if she distances herself away from your friends and family.  If she doesn't want to show up for any family dinner it's because she doesn't want to look at your family in the face and lie to them.




10 Steps to find out if she's a cheater


1. Check her phone bill.

2. Go through her phone.

3. Hire a professional to uncover her lying ass.

4. Check her purse.  Is there any mysterious keys or condoms?

5. Show up at her work and "surprise" her with flowers - perhaps it's a love at work so you can catch her in the act.

6. Dress up in a disguise and follow her - Don't act like a creeper though.. Stay back and DO NOT LET HER SEE YOU!

7. Does someone call your house and hang up - Trace the call it's probably him.

8. Make a fake Facebook account and flirt with her and see if she's into it or not.  Make sure your picture is believable but hot!

9. Try Internet searches on social networking sites or online dating sites.  She may be on there and you never even knew it.

10. Ask her friends.  They know her in a different way then you do.  Maybe if you ask them they will fess up.