Are you getting extremely bored with telling everyone that you actually like being alone?
But in fact your not alone. There are literally millions of single men out there to get to know.
But are you looking for Mr. Right or are you looking for Mr. Right Now?
There is a huge difference between the two.
Let me explain the definition of ...
Mr. Right Now
This man is in a relationship with you and your having a lot of fun together.
Your out partying and drinking and overall having the best time of your life.
However one morning you wake up and realize that this relationship is unstable, predictable and cheapening.
What you really need is to settle down with the person you dreamed about when you were little.
Mr. Right Now is basically a glamorized booty call.
He's cool and all but you don't want his sperm to be passed on for generations if you know what I'm saying.
Mr. Right
Wouldn't it be easy if they wore a name tag that told us our future?
Mr. Right is the man that you are proud to introduce your family to.
He is the man that will hold your hair back when you puke and stick with you when you don't look pretty.
Hes the one you tell all your secrets to and its fun to lay on the sofa and do nothing.
He is the one that you can't picture yourself being without and you want to spend forever with him.
Who are you searching for?
There is a man for every woman so don't panic.
What you want, whatever it may be, will happen eventually.
You have to give life time to show the full picture.
Get out there and spend some quality time with your friends, go to a party or ladies night out at a local pub. Work on your fitness and your overall well being.
Take time to work on yourself because normally that time would be taken up by hanging out with your boyfriend.
You are independent now so take advantage of it.
Independence is definitely not a bad thing.
Be patient. Your time with come. :)
In the mean time you can figure out what kind of man you want.
I liked this article, so much so that I decided to do an official response to it on my blog. No worries though, I've linked back to you as I'm not one to steal your ideas.
ReplyDeleteThe bottom line is, your next partner is going to be just like you. Go to the gym and get in shape and maybe you'll meet someone who also likes to be in shape, and maybe you'll have perfectly fit babies together. If you don't work on yourself, you'll continue to find partners that have no goals..you'll find someone to suit your mindset.
This is my opinion but I'm pretty sure I'm right. Check out my response on my blog.
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