How to tell if they really are your friends

Are You Really My Friend?



Do you often wonder if the people you are hanging around with really are your friends?  I quite often do. 


I try and evaluate the situation right when I meet the person.  Usually I can tell right away if they are going to mesh well with me, if they are fake, or just plain ol' bitches. 


It is very easy to tell whether or not people really are who they say there are.  It is called human intuition and more often then not people chose to ignore it.


I will let you in on how I find out whether they are friends are not.


Some Questions To Ask Yourself





  • Are they really happy for you if something great happens or are they jealous and kind of fake about it?

  • Have they stuck by you when everyone else just pushed you away?

  • If you called them at 4 in the morning because you needed help would they come and not bitch about it?

  • Do they call you often?  Do they surprise call you when you are not expecting them too?

  • Do they make you feel special and truly appreciate everything you probably do for them?

  • Do they go out of their way to do little things for you to make your life easier?

  • Do they easily mesh well with your old friends or are they awkward around them? 

  • Do your old friends like them?  Usually if your old friends don't like the new one it is for a reason so listen to their advice and then judge for yourself.

  • Do you feel weird about introducing them to your boyfriend/girlfriend and you don't know why?

  • Do they want to know more things about you and your past?  A good friend will want to know everything they can about you.

  • Are you easily annoyed with them or do they feel that way about you?

  • Can you spend a lot of time with them and you hardly ever fight?

  • Do they compliment you or put you down?

  • Are they reliable?

  • Are they honest?  Have you ever caught them in a lie no matter how small?

  • Do they cancel your plans often when you think they have something better to do?

  • Do they have a rocky past?  Usually when they have had trouble with keeping friends before it is for a good reason.  Maybe ask their old friend why they stopped being friends.. Only do this if you are courageous and you know them.

  • Ask your parents or family members whether they like them or not.  Usually your folks are a pretty good judge of who is out to get ya.

  • Do they ask for too many favors? 

  • Do they ask to borrow things all the time or borrow money and you have to ask for it back?

  • Do they have a drinking problem or drug addiction?  If they do they probably won't be very trust worthy.

  • Do you have a lot of money and they always name drop famous or rich people around you to make themselves look cool?



If you question whether or not this person is really your friend then they probably aren't. 


If you have 1 true friend in life then consider yourself to be very lucky as most people never find one. 


Most people are out to get the other and they just want to get ahead in life.  Once people find out that they can use you for something you bet your sweet ass they will until you stop it.


You will be treated badly if you let them.  Take control of your life and change it for the better.


If you have any questions or stories about evil ex-best friends email me at lesliestar@lesliestar.ca




Bookmark and Share

3 comments:

  1. This is more of a girls way to tell if their a good friend. Guys won't use half of those tips... the following 3 specifically:
    -Do they call you often? Do they surprise call you when you are not expecting them too?
    -Do they make you feel special and truly appreciate everything you probably do for them?
    -Do they go out of their way to do little things for you to make your life easier?
    If a male friend of mine tried to impress me by doing any of the above I would ask him to take my dick out of his mouth... yeah... you heard me!

    ReplyDelete
  2. Wowzers.. Thanks for your comment..

    ReplyDelete
  3. LOL! Ian is right, he put it in a nice funny way! My friend is a semi-true friend.

    ReplyDelete